Last year, I watched a founder sign a term sheet with a massive smile on his face.
Anti-dilution protection? Check.
Board control? Check.
The valuation was even higher than he expected.
Three months later, he hit 98% of his milestone and lost half his equity to a performance ratchet he didn't understand.
Unfortunately, most founders treat term sheets like they're negotiating a car lease.
They skim the highlights, trust the handshake, sign on the dotted line.
Here's the problem: VCs have spent the last 18 months adding clauses that sound founder-friendly but hide escape hatches.
The market's shifting. Competition's heating up.
And if you think that means you're getting a fair deal by default, you're about to learn an expensive lesson.
If you don't understand every aspect of your term sheet, soon you won't own your company.
Your investor isn't trying to screw you. They're just playing a different game.
They've got 40 portfolio companies and a legal obligation to their LPs.
You've got one shot to not give away your company in legalese you won't understand until it's too late.
This isn't personal. It's structural.
And if you don't wise up, you'll be the one telling cautionary tales at founder meetups.
Why Founders Keep Getting Burned on Term Sheets

Because no one teaches you to read between the lawyer-speak.
Here's why most founders walk into bad deals:
- They're so desperate for capital they'd sign anything (VCs can smell this, by the way)
- They assume "standard terms" means "fair terms." It doesn't.
- They focus on valuation and ignore everything else that actually matters
- They don't realize that AI provisions and data rights clauses didn't exist two years ago
- They think milestone-based funding is just "being held accountable," not a ticking time bomb
- They're embarrassed to ask questions because they don't want to seem inexperienced
- They assume every VC plays fair because “the market’s competitive again.”
- Their lawyer bills $800/hour, and try to use ChatGPT to unpack the legalese
Look, I get it.
You've been pitching for months, your runway's getting shorter, and finally someone says yes.
But here's what I'm going to walk you through: the three biggest changes happening in term sheets right now, why they matter, and what you actually need to negotiate before you sign anything.
Because the market is shifting back toward founders. VCs are competing again.
But they're not idiots. They're just repackaging the same control mechanisms with friendlier language.
Step 1: Decode What "Founder-Friendly" Actually Means
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You're going to hear this phrase a lot.
"We're founder-friendly!" they'll say, pointing to their portfolio of happy entrepreneurs on their website.
Cool story. Now read Section 3.7.
Here's where founders screw up: they see one or two good terms and assume the whole deal is clean.
It never is.
Competitive markets ARE pushing VCs to offer better headline terms. That part's true.
Anti-dilution protections are getting lighter.
But dig deeper and you'll find:
- Carve-outs for "key person" clauses that let them replace you if you don't hit arbitrary metrics
- Minority drag-along rights that could force you to accept an acquisition offer you hate
- Liquidation preferences above 1x. (Translation: they get paid before you, no matter what.)
- Information rights that give them access to everything, including your mental health
- New AI usage provisions that basically let them control how you build your product
The trap isn't in what they give you. It's in what they hide three pages later.
Carta’s latest data shows that most seed rounds look “standard” on paper.
The risk shows up later, especially in bridge rounds where liquidation preferences quietly change.
I've seen "founder-friendly" deals that gave founders control of the board but required unanimous consent for any decision bigger than ordering office supplies.
That's not friendly. That's performative.
Step 2: Understand the AI and IP Provisions (Because They're Brand New and Potentially Disastrous)
Two years ago, nobody talked about AI usage rights in term sheets.
Now? It's on page one.
VCs are terrified of regulatory risk and IP contamination from AI tools.
So they're adding language around:
- What AI tools you can use to build your product
- Who owns the data generated by AI systems
- Compliance requirements for AI governance (which don't even exist yet)
- Disclosure requirements if you train models on customer data
- Who pays the legal bills if your AI violates someone else's IP
Sounds reasonable, right?
Except most of this language is so vague that it gives investors veto power over your entire tech stack.
"We just want to make sure you're compliant." With what?
There are no AI compliance standards yet. Which means they're asking you to comply with whatever they decide later.
Here's what you need to negotiate:
- Specific definitions of what AI usage actually means (is GitHub Copilot banned? What about ChatGPT for customer support?)
- Clear ownership of AI-generated outputs. This should be YOUR IP, not shared.
- Reasonable compliance standards tied to actual regulations, not vibes
- Sunset clauses that remove these provisions if regulations don't materialize in 24 months
Don't let them handwave this as "standard language."
It's not. It's new, it's untested, and it could kill your ability to ship product.
Step 3: Limit Performance-Based Triggers Before They Crush You
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Milestone-based funding sounds great in theory.
"Hit your targets, unlock more capital!"
Very motivational. Very startup-y.
In practice? It's a loaded gun pointed at your cap table.
Instead of giving you all the money upfront, they release it in tranches tied to specific milestones.
Hit $500K ARR? Great, here's the next million.
Miss it by 10%? Enjoy your new valuation adjustment and equity ratchet.
Performance ratchets are becoming standard, and most founders don't understand the math until it's too late.
You might hit 95% of your target and still trigger a mechanism that dilutes you by another 20%.
I watched a founder celebrate hitting $480K ARR (target was $500K) only to discover his "close enough" triggered a ratchet that dropped his ownership from 40% to 31%.
Twenty grand in missed revenue cost him nine percentage points of his company.
Yikes.
The worst part? These triggers are often tied to metrics you don't fully control.
Revenue targets that don't account for seasonality. Hiring goals that ignore market conditions. Product milestones that assume zero technical debt.
Before you agree to ANY milestone-based terms:
- Negotiate buffer zones (if you hit 90%+, the milestone counts)
- Get quarterly review periods, not rigid deadlines
- Make sure the milestones are within YOUR control (not "achieve X% market share")
- Cap the maximum dilution from any single missed milestone
- Build in force majeure provisions for market crashes, pandemics, or other external shocks
Understand that milestone-based funding is about control, not accountability.
They're not doing this to keep you motivated.
They're doing it to maintain optionality.
If you miss targets, they can walk or renegotiate.
If you hit them, they pay what they already promised.
You take all the risk. They take none.
The One Thing You Can't Forget
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Getting a term sheet means the negotiation just started. And it never really ends.
That signature doesn't mean you won.
It means you entered a partnership where your investor has structural advantages, legal leverage, and way more experience than you do.
The good news: the market's actually shifting back toward founders.
Real competition exists again.
“Founder-friendly" is just marketing. The actual terms are what matters.
Read every clause. Question everything.
And for the love of God, hire a lawyer who's seen hundreds of these deals, not your buddy from law school.
Your future equity depends on it.
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